Did you know that people who routinely practice positive self-talk are much more likely to have fulfilling and satisfying lives compared to people who engage in either negative self-talk, or no self-talk at all?
I strive to have a deeply fulfilling life, therefore I have chosen to purposefully engage in more positive self-talk, and researched 42 positive and uplifting statements to share with myself (and with you) over 42 days – in honor of my 42nd birthday 💙
Call them affirmations, call them mantras, you can call them anything you want, but I have chosen 42 positive and uplifting statements to share with myself (and with you) over the next 42 days – in honor of my 42nd birthday
Do you need to engage in more positive self-talk in your life? Try repeating some of my statements throughout the day, if they are something you want to feel about yourself.
I hope you enjoy them!
In reality, I don’t really care if you enjoy them, because this is really for me. 💙
Morning Mantras: Day 1/42

“The words you use determine your destiny. Words have POWER…”
-Trish Blackwell
Two types of thoughts continually fight for your attention. One says, “Yes, you can.” The other says, “No, you can’t.” One lists your failures, whereas the other proclaims your strengths. One longs to build you up; the other seeks to tear you down.
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Confidence is a muscle that must be worked everyday, otherwise it will atrophy
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This is a good reminder for me today, to help me be proud of who I am, and make decisions that are true to me, not done in response to panic, so I can be proud of who I am.
Morning Mantras: Day 12/42

Matthew 17:20
Morning Mantras: Day 13/42

We each have a story.
Each one is a unique contribution to the world.
More people should speak up to share their stories.
We can all learn from them, and grow together.
Morning Mantras: Day 14/42

Morning Mantras: Day 15/42

What a great question!
My ultimate goal in life is to EMPOWER others to add more YEARS to their LIVES, and add more LIFE to those YEARS.
Morning Mantras: Day 16/42

Entering grad school caused a rift in my confidence, as I was surrounded by amazingly intelligent peers and professors. I felt like my brain never was quite fast enough to keep up with everyone else’s around me. I just didn’t think the same way they did, no matter how hard I try.
This insecurity grew as I moved into the classroom to teach, and I was charged with instilling knowledge in other people. I felt like I never had the right answers to their questions.
But then I realized that just because other people may be smarter than I am, it doesn’t mean that I’m not smart myself. I know I have a lot of information in my brain, and perhaps maybe even more than my students on a given topic (I hope). So I now stand confident with what I know, and continually learn every day to grow myself even more.
Morning Mantras: Day 17/42

I consider it my little mark on the world, adding value and joy to other people’s lives.
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– Jeremiah 29:11
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What to join me in this awesome place? It’s just a decision away!
Morning Mantras: Day 21/42

– Nolan Ryan
Flexibility, adaptability, and the ability to evolve and change over time, are the keys to success and satisfaction. Too often we get stuck in our ways, and that makes us stuck in our life. We’ve all heard how the definition of insanity is trying the same thing over and over again, hoping for a different outcome. However, we often approach our problems from the same direction every time they arise in our lives.
If we can break the mold of our behavior, be flexible in how we approach things, maybe we can break through to happiness?
Morning Mantras: Day 22/42

I now choose to surround myself who will listen to me, and respect my opinion. The fight to be heard by deaf ears is often not worth it.
Morning Mantras: Day 23/42

Yes, I believe we should alway strive to grow ourselves into better individuals, but you should always be loved by those around you for exactly who you are (and are not) that day!
Morning Mantras: Day 24/42

We have the ability to do the same thing!
Tired of being surrounded by negative energy? Transform it into something positive. It is YOUR CHOICE of how you respond to others. Choose to refocus with positive energy.
Morning Mantras: Day 25/42

What are you seeking inspiration for?
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Are a Beautiful Mess, too?
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– Brain surgery to remove a tumor
– Radiation
– Diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis
– Mom diagnosed with Alzheimer’s
– Severe depression
– My teaching program at school was cut in half, and I lost half my classes
– Relationship issues
– Loss of friendships
– Limited in my physical abilities
– Continual fatigue and pain (almost everyday)
– People close to me contemplating suicide
– My own struggles with wishing I wasn’t alive (better now!)
– Adhesive capsulitis / frozen shoulder (extreme, extreme pain and disability)
I could let this all hold me back. I could let this all overwhelm me. I could curl up in the fetal position and just lay in my bed all day (which I often want to do).
Nope.
I let this fuel me. I let this teach me. I let this motivate me.
I figure that if someone has to endure all these things, I would prefer for it to be ME rather than anyone else. No one else should go through all this.
I have faith that I can make it through any trial. I know God has my back.
My journey is MINE. Although it hasn’t been fun, and I’ve wanted to “quit” many times, it has made me who I am today. For that, I am thankful 💙
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– Robin Sharma
When faced with a challenge, some people are so afraid of failure that they even try to overcome the challenge, which seals the fate of their own failure. Other people may embrace the challenge as a way to continue their own growth (of physical, emotional, and/or mental health).
Instead of living a life of fear, I would rather live a life of growth. A life where I become a better version of myself everyday. A life where I embrace a challenge, simply because I know I will learn and become a better person for it in the process.
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Then I did an interesting thing….
I started talking less in meetings, and stopped providing input or asking questions. However, underneath it all, I still felt like my ideas held value. So, instead of speaking up, I told them to a coworker, and asked him to bring them up in meetings.
What do you know…….my boss thought they were great ideas/questions!
Feeling a little more justified, I tried to speak up in a meeting once, when instantly my idea was rejected. A half hour later, I passed a note to my coworker and asked him to bring up the idea as if it was new, to try to see what would happen. Of course, our boss thought it was a great idea.
I don’t know what I ever did to my boss to be thought of in this matter, and I honestly don’t think it was a sex-thing. But, I felt like I had a lot to offer, but no one to receive it. That was when I decided it was time for me to move along to a new place where my perspective on things would be valued. Best decision I ever made.
My voice matters, and my perspective sheds new light on situations!
Morning Mantras: Day 34/42

Get out and truly live!
Embrace life.
Laugh.
Love.
Make a difference in someone else’s life.
Make a difference in your own life.
Leave the world a better place, simply because you were in it.
Celebrate what you have, as it can be gone quite quickly. I don’t want you to miss out on living, and I don’t want your family to miss out on you.
Morning Mantras: Day 35/42

+ Financial freedom.
+ Freedom in my schedule to be there for my kids.
+ Freedom of time spent doing the things I love.
+ Freedom not to have to say no to my kids for anything, just because of a lack of time or money.
It is hard work.
But I am capable of accomplishing hard things.
And the rewards make it all worth it!
Morning Mantras: Day 36/42

With that in mind, I have big plans in the works! And I feel good things coming my way.
I love a vision. I love a dream. But what I love even more is making those visions a reality!
💕 I am proud of the work I am doing.
💕 I am proud of my past, current, and future accomplishments.
💕 I am proud of me.
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I want to give everything my all, because if it’s worth doing, then it’s worth doing to the best of my ability. Otherwise, I just shouldn’t be spending my time on it, right?
It’s not that I want to be perfect.
I just want to give everything my full attention and all of my energy.
I want to produce work I am proud of.
Morning Mantras: Day 39/42

What happened in the past that I didn’t like that I must except, release it, and let it go?
Don’t give it weight anymore.
It doesn’t make it okay. Sometimes things happen and it will never be okay, but I can release it, and not give it weight anymore.
I won’t let it be negative on me now. I will accept that it happened.
I didn’t like it, I don’t approve of it, but it’s not going to stop me now.
If I have to choose in life, I choose good!
I won’t carry that weight anymore, release it. It’s my time to release it.
I deserve to be happy right now. I choose to let it go. Freedom is mine.
I have released its power, and have taken my power back.
I give myself permission to be free.
I choose freedom so that I can rise again.
I am free because I choose to be free!
Morning Mantras: Day 40/42

Thank you for igniting me with the passion that I have for helping others.
This world can be such a dark and lonely place. People need a spark of inspiration, a spark of enthusiasm, a spark of friendship.
I pray that I can be that small flame for them. That I may be just one small light for them in the world of darkness. That my light might be a beacon for a place that they find comfort, friendship, and inspiration.
My hope is that my small spark will spread, and ignite the bonfire within them so they can burn bright for everyone else to see.
Amen
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I think I’m going to give that up!
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I am feeling sad as my Morning Mantra project is coming to a close.
My mantras will continue to ring as alarms on my phone throughout the day, as I still want to continue speaking to them into my life.
However, my time of posting them has come to an end.
It is important to remember that people who routinely engage in positive self-talk are more likely to be happy with their lives, compared to people who engage in either negative self-talk, or no self-talk at all.
Do you use mantras? If not, you should!
I choose my mantras not because I have already conquered them,
but because I want to speak them into my life.
What do YOU need to speak into your life?